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Submitted by social bunny 20/06/2011 02:41 pm PDT

I have a friend that is married and she was snooping through her husband's email/FB message and saw several messages from the his "ex" discussing possibly to meet up with each other.., reminiscing of some intimate moments...that happened in the past..., took her phone number to catch up with each...making flirting comments...she said it is with several women...BUT really aggravated her was there was one particular female that he emphazised that they keep in touch and they are following up with each other by email at least 2-3times a month by email... Should she confront him?? Should keep quiet and continue to look at the emails??? She is so broken behind this and I'm curious of which way you all think...Lets help my friend....men are also welcome to comment.. Also, she has 2children with her husband...

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Submitted by bjejeje 20/06/2011 02:46 pm PDT

So sorry your friend is going through this. It will continue unless she stops it. If she does not want to live like this, she should stop it. Remind her that she deserves to be happy and secure in her marriage. In any event, she has a very difficult road ahead of her.

Submitted by social bunny 20/06/2011 02:56 pm PDT

It is sad because they have been together 11yrs. this year...she worried of how he will respond when he finds out she has been snooping...

Submitted by layna69 20/06/2011 03:00 pm PDT

She need to speak to her minister about her marriage we could give her wrong advice.

Submitted by ciscokid_67 20/06/2011 03:13 pm PDT

Infidelity? I don't know, but she shouldn't be snooping in his stuff. However he shouldn't be putting himself out there either. They should talk this out before it festers, but he will get mad at her spying on him.

Submitted by social bunny 20/06/2011 03:23 pm PDT

I agree with everyone to a degree...BUT cisco...she said he has been acting strange for almost a year...so she starting checking out stuff...I hear u and maybe she shouldn't have snooped BUT at the same time it should be nothing hide either...Layna(I agree) that was my thought but she doesn't really like outsiders in her business and is a private person...I was shocked when she told me...

Submitted by ciscokid_67 20/06/2011 03:28 pm PDT

That's fine, don't agree with me, I won't get mad. :)
But trust old uncle Cisco on this, when she confronts him on this, he will at first, out of guilt, get mad at her for going through his stuff.

Submitted by social bunny 20/06/2011 03:35 pm PDT

She said that

Submitted by social bunny 20/06/2011 03:38 pm PDT

She said that he had a few different ones...and she just tried one them and there was all the sneaky behavior but she also said he wouldnt think she would do this...

Submitted by social bunny 20/06/2011 03:40 pm PDT

Sorry...I was talking about passwords..oops
I honestly think he will be mad initially about the snooping Cisco but is she suppose to be quiet about it...now there are going to be trust issues...

Submitted by social bunny 20/06/2011 03:45 pm PDT

Free ...I AGREE
Prince...I don't know..she has kids a house...I don't if she would leave or not...it is terrible..they have been married 11 years...that's a long time to waste...

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